Hey BQT1 - I agree physical violence is not an option. It never solves anything and often causes more problems than what was there b4.....Make sure you take those photos and see a doctor for him/her to record it on your file. You don't have to do anything about it but pls do it for your and Hannah's sake as if it is recorded by a doctor and if you have photo's to back it up it is evidence for you should you ever need it, even in a custody case. This may never ever happen but if it does wouldn't it be better to have this evidence than to not have it and regret it later. Don't even tell anyone that you have it if you don't want to but I urge you to do it for yours and Hannah's sake.......I am sure you are so hurt on a physical and emotional front and he attacked your pride by making you feel awful about your body well guess what you can change your body (diet, gym or nothing if it doesnt need it) but he cannot do a damn thing about the person he was that night which was a.......sorry BQT1 I am just saying I know you must feel awful in a number of ways and know everyone here loves you for you so rather than turn to drink turn to venting on this board and it's better for Hannah and your head the next morning(LOL) Come BQT1 escape reality, have a laugh and a joke here and get the support and advice you need to make you a strong Goddess.....KDU
