I have to agree with Anna...and sadly myself follow's Anna'a advice ( I always try to rationalize H's anger ). My H has never hit me...but at the beginning of our R ( 6 yrs ago ) it looked like he wanted to once. I said ' go for it and watch me leave your sorry @ss! ". Maybe that comment stuck with him b/c he has never attempted to hit me...just breaks things when he's angry. But from reading H's old journal he had been physically abusive with former girlfriends.
Right now I know H has anger issues, but I've still been DBing. But if he actually did cross the line with me and hit me...DBing would be 100000000000% over. Nevermind if he did it with a child present ( I really hope Hannah wasn't watching this ).
I'm sure your H, after a few days away, will come back asking to live there again or try to sugar coat his actions. If not after a few days...eventually. Please watch what you do at this point. If it were me I would not allow him into the house at all. Just as back up, I would photograph the bumps and bruises...and see what alimony and custody he'll get after That! For heavens sake...he is the one having the A!! Where is their logic coming from!
Stay strong...u don't deserve to be treated that way after you've already been going thru hell with the A.
