Sorry to hear how bad things got for you last night. What I would suggest for you is to have no contact with H whatsoever. I know you still love him and would do anything to get your M back on track. Right now it sounds as though things are getting way out of hand with H being physically and emotionally abusive with you. You don't need to take that sh!t, no one does. Don't let his threats of taking Hannah and asking for alimony get to you. He's just trying to beat youn down emotionally because he knows Hannah means everything to you. Let him go, and if he's with OW so be it. You have nothing to apologize to your H. He's the one that chose to sleep with another OW, not you. He's just trying to make what he is doing justifiable and making you the one at fault for a bad M. Don't listen to that BS. I'm sorry if I sound harsh, I care what happens to you. Your H is being a total a@@hole and dick right now.
Take care of yourself right now. Is there a friend or relative that can come over and be with you in case H tries to come back home? Don't let him back in. -KDK
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years
