WHen you talk to H does he literally say he is upset because he hasnt talked to OW??? If he does say that, man is he insensitive. At least my H is trying to hide is affair, Damn your H is balsy! I am not trying to make you feel bad, but while you are trying to remain chipper he is moping around because he cant see her. Maybe the next time you talk to him about that, you can tell him that he doesnt have to stay at home. You only want him home because he wants to be with you and not any other reason. ITs almost like he is asking for your approval. It is really weird. Definately dont stoop to her level and talk to her. She is an ass and obviously very immature. Anyone who contacts their lovers wife to tell him about the scratch marks she left is immature and not worth your time. For now the only option you have unless you want to kick him out is to GAL right in front of his face. He wont like it, believe me! Dont walk on eggshells, stomp on them! Your H reminds me so much of mine, although mine trys to make believe I am stupid and that I dont know about his telephone activities, its as if they dont want to let go of you, but dont want you either. Limbo land is not fun! GAL, GAL, GAL! Thats all you can do right now
