Good Morning Everyone....My other thread was locked up so I am starting another. I hope that everyone had a wonderful weekend. Mine was very strange....

Here it goes...

I explained to everyone that H had been in a fight wih SIL husband. Well, low and behold....SIL told H that he had to move out because although she is separated from her H he will make things tough. I found this out when I went there to drop off Devin(stepson). I didnt offer him to come home we just talked about what he was going to do. H said that he wanted to come home...Yikes! Was not ready for that!
H ended up staying the weekend at the house...we got along but at the same time we gave eachother space. Hannah and Deving had so much fun running around...it was too cute! On Sunday I let husband sleep in...at about 11am I let him know that I was going to get something to eat and for him to watch the kids....I came home he was still in bed...but the kids were in the room playing. Hannah, Devin and I ate our Subway and then H came out of the room to eat. I could see that something was affecting him. I said to him .... are you feeling okay...H said that he was having a bad day...was mising OW. He told me that is told her that he wanted to move home. Then he said that he told her that he is kind of forced to because he doesnt know where to go(I kept my friendly concern face on although I wanted to say something)..she was upset and he is trying to cut it off cold turkey. We went in the backyard and fixed the PVC pipe for the sprinklers and didn't talk about it anymore. H made several trips to Home Depot and took Devin each time until the last time. H left a little upset because he didnt want to have to go back...he just wanted to finish. Well, he was gone a long time and I called him to see if he could get something while he was gone....and he said(rudely) I am on my way back...I had to go back to Home Depot because you(me)bought the wrong length cuplings. On my first attempt to call him his voicemail came right on...(that means that he was on the other line) since he was being rude I assume that it was OW. He said I know that I was on the other line(I guess he could see that I tried to call in) he said he was trying to call his sister.(I guess that he thinks that I am dumb) When he got home and we were in the backyard...he said what if I was talking to OW...there is nothing that I can do and that this is why he didnt want to live here....he didnt want to live his life like this(I hadnt asked him anything) I nicely said that I am not going to argue...and that I was going to leave and take a breather(went to drop off Hannah at my moms..she wanted her for the night) When I came back...I gave him more space...H came up to me and said sorry and that this is a little tought right now. I did explain that I did not ask him to come home...and that I am not going to live like this and with communication we can work through anything...but being rude is unacceptable.

I dont know what is going to happen now. I dont like what he said to OW (he never Has to come home) We do need to discuss what he is really going to do...but I will wait to see what he does today. I figure that he could have rented a hotel for the weekend but he came to the house. I understand the withdrawl..but the rudeness is wrong. I always want him to come home because he wanted to..not because he feels forced.(There are a lot other options) I feel like a soap opera...I figure OW with try and IM me today...not responding to her. Ahhhhh! To much to fast! I need some time to think and absorb!