HDH vs LDW subject "popping"

[OG_Lou]

Webermiester wrote on Cemar's thread and I replied

Webermiester wrote:
You have no idea how much I would like to know why she thought sex would become an addiction and why she chose to not let herself get into it

We both work Monday thru Friday. She works mornings, I work evenings. When I come home at night, she’s already asleep. When she gets up, I’m asleep.


I had something like this happen to me when I had back surgery. BB said she was devistated we could not have sex very often at the time so she decided it was better to shut off those sexy feelings.

In your case, if your W is a ML person when she goes to bed, you not being there in the early evening leaves her in a bind because you are not there to fill her sexual and emotional tank when she might need it the most. I know for my own relationship timing was off several times and created more problems than I would have imagined. Don't play down timing. It is more important to some people than you can imagine.

Like Lil said, If she MB's while you are not home during the week and feels uncomfortable about it, That might also play into the "addiction" comment. If she feels addicted to sex do you think she might feel you need to come home a couple nights a week to fill her sexual needs. It might work out if you had a pizza delivery job or a job where you could flexable with your hours. But who would want to leave after ML anyway. The cuddeling after is so nice.

Just something to think about. It kind of happened to BB and me. The timing and availability thing really does influence some peoples feelings more than others.

If you two worked the same shift and went to bed together, would it be easier for your W to get into sex/ML. After all she could depend on you being there every day if she really felt she was addicted to sex. Then according to Women's Masturbation Experiences some really like both varities of feeling sexual and don't want to depend on one form for their only satisfaction method.

Lou