Very well put. I feel the same way. I can have more sex then I currently am, but it is like you say, you need a 2nd lover in the room. My wife too just basically leaves it up to me to do the cooking. Sex is only good when it is between 2 lovers, not a lover and a "Willing Participant" or worse yet, a "Masturbation Aid". It's like these women have no freaking clue as to what the point of sex really is!
