I would like to congradulate you on your recent relization. Climax is wonderful yet there are times when it doesn't happen. Men's ejaculation is such a physical, and visual show that no wonder girls are acused of faking it. There are times when you hit a "high" plateau and just can't get over the top. You want to give the "gift of climax" to your partner, but don't loose sight of the closeness and touch that is all around you.

Congrats again on learning that sometimes it just doesn't happen but I love this moment and always will.

Pity me that the heart is slow to learn What the swift mind beholds at every turn. Edna St. Vincent Millay