RE: Cathy 47 Well, I can't speak for all girls but, as for me, once I've had the orgasm sex can become quite uncomfortable. I'm sensitized in that area but it is no longer in a pleasant way plus I start to lose moisture. When I was sexually active it could be VERY PAINFUL to me if sex went on very long after I had orgasmed.
Cathy I understand the above situation. I wish more guys took a hint from their lover that ML and sex is different for everyone and different according to each situation. It does bring down one's sence of accomplishments to have a woman say "are you about done" but I know it is not about my ability as a lover as much as it is about her internal sexual state and the mechanics of IC and ML.
I wish every guy could be the woman and the woman feel what guys feel during sex a couple times a year. Then both sexes would have a better understanding of what it is to have sex with their partner. But that only happens in the movies.