Quote: She has her O, so I feel free to get into letting my seed fly. She get's relaxed from her O, yet I want to keep going for mine. Soon, nothing is happening to take me over the top, to make me pop. She is winding down, yet I am trying to climb to the peak. Any minute now, she gives me the look that says, "Are you going to be done soon? You're wearing me out."
I have encountered this. My bf comes first and then it's my "turn," so he will use his hand. But his attitude is how long is this going to take, I'm sleepy, my hand is getting tired, etc. I can't O under that kind of pressure. I need to feel I can take all the time I need in order for it not to take so long, kwim? The pressure of having to come becuase I'm losing his attention makes it impossible for me to focus enough to come. WM put it well-- I'm still trying to climb the peak, but he's winding down and checking out. I consider this selfish behavior on his part, and he's the first guy I've known who was this way. Most guys really want their partner to O and will do what it takes to make it happen. All I need is for him to be there and be patient. Sometimes it takes him forever to come-- I've sucked him as long as an hour or more. But I'm a "gentleman" and don't bail, as long as he wants me to continue. However, he will not reciprocate in kind.
I think I've read this complaint on this board before. The "I've had mine and I'm losing interest" syndrome. Mandksdad springs to mind, but maybe others have experienced it, too.
