When you say you want her to understand is, what you really mean, that you want her to act in a way during love making that makes it more pleasurable for you so that you can more easily orgasm? If so, then it's not only understanding you want but a change in behavior also. Again, I don't think that is unreasonable but you might want to go at it from the mechanics side instead of the feelings side. You can't change the way she feels during the act but you might can impress upon her that there are certain things you would like for her to do during the act. Know what I mean?
Yes, that is EXACTLY what I mean. To put in present tense, Mrs.WM and I are ML. She has her O, so I feel free to get into letting my seed fly. She get's relaxed from her O, yet I want to keep going for mine. Soon, nothing is happening to take me over the top, to make me pop. She is winding down, yet I am trying to climb to the peak. Any minute now, she gives me the look that says, "Are you going to be done soon? You're wearing me out."
We do need a behaivor change as well as a feelings revelation. We could be so good together if only we could communicate mechanics as well as feeling through this!
