Oh my God HD I do swear your wife is a clone of myself or vica versa at times.
What you just stated as your view of how your wife thought. Was like you were in my head a few months back ago.And how I felt for years about him it was all about sex and his life revolved around his penis. Wow glad I am past that to a large degree. I believe you should see that in my earlier statement when I said I have wished my H could kiss me or touch me with out it taking on a sexual nature. Odd how as soon as I put my defenses down and tried to view it from his side of the fence how easily my perception of his actions and the anger it brought up disapated. I hope your wife gets there soon more for herself then for you its more peaceful to not feel you are living with a villian of sorts.
I found identification of your thought your wife may be gay. My mother has thought I might be gay. I have thought I would rather be gay and my H was given the illussion I was last year when I was trying desperatly to leave him.
Our sitch do seem to travel some of the same roads.
