Quote: She said, "I want you to not want OF me" I think she wants me to want her...just not to bother her about it.
I took it to mean that she's tired of you asking and wanting, "Do me, do me!" She may want to feel that you are offering to give her something (pleasure) rather than asking her to give you something. She may think that sexual pleasure should be a freely offered gift, rather than an obligation that is demanded.
I don't remember if you've mentioned whether you've had sexual encounters that were focused on her pleasure and not yours.
