Quote: My suggestion is to desensitize her to the issue of sex... help her separate YOU from SEX.
I am stymied.
I can't separate ME from SEX in her mind by AVOIDING the issue, which, as you know, I have tried before.
I can't separate ME from SEX in her mind by Milieu Therapy, in other words, by bombarding her with sexual references, innuendo, etc.
(aside) I just got a call from her in which she was upset that, while I had to access her work computer at her request to get a client's phone number for her, I inserted an item in her Outlook Calendar for today: "Squeeze Hairdog's Butt Day." She said it was a violation of her privacy, and it was a sexual comment, which isn't funny. While I apologized for the minor violation of privacy, I told her that it wasn't that sexual, and that I wish she'd get back the sense of humor she used to have. (/aside)
So, Corri, what are you suggesting? Remember this line?: Explain it to me like I was a 6 year old.
