HP, HD That does seem to be a common thread. MrsGGB and I both are guilty of reading (well listening) between the lines and insinuating meaning that wasn't there. Now I don't think we have our pre-cana papers, but I do remember we both kinda blew it off and took it lightly. I remember us having big communications issues then, and both of us tend to clam up rather than be adverse, so it is a big problem with us we are working to overcome.
The writing down thing is good, in fact WWME has you write your feelings in a love letter so that it is on paper and doesn't get whitewashed over in the discussion.
