We have a one and a half hour couple's session scheduled for next Wednesday. I am supposed to tell her what the agenda will be:
1. Fighting Fair, and her anger, drinking, and meanness during an argument.

2. Her need for me to declare unconditional love.

3. My need for a physical relationship.

And, if she tries to talk about these prior to the meeting, I'm to say "no." We can't have a healthy discussion of any of this without a mediator/third person present

We'll see how it goes.

Hairdog