We have a one and a half hour couple's session scheduled for next Wednesday. I am supposed to tell her what the agenda will be: 1. Fighting Fair, and her anger, drinking, and meanness during an argument.
2. Her need for me to declare unconditional love.
3. My need for a physical relationship.
And, if she tries to talk about these prior to the meeting, I'm to say "no." We can't have a healthy discussion of any of this without a mediator/third person present