It certainly does sound like this is more a control issue than a sex one. If Mrs.HD is willing to cede control in other areas, maybe she will see that the world is not going to end, that in fact letting go can be liberating. It could be an inroad unexplored up until now. Just a thought.


I don't mind the sun sometime The images it shows I can taste you on my lips And smell you in my clothes Cinnamon and Sugar And softly spoken lies You never know just how you look Through someone elses eyes BHS-"Pepper"