Paul, You and I are in agreement. I agree that that is not unconditional love and that was precisely my point.
What MrsHD wants is unconditional acceptance of her unwillingness to meet Hairy's needs. Or even to try.
Only she is phrasing this as wanting unconditional love. I was pointing out that this is not what UL love is. Like Zbube said (and Dahmer's parents so creepily illustrate) there is nothing that will make me stop loving my girls. But I would not ACCEPT their actions if they were robbing banks. I would not say, Oh that's okay, who cares! Come on, I'll make you some cinnamon rolls.
Well, you and I are saying the same thing, that's all I wanted to point out. MrsHD has a way of using her considerable brain power to try and twist things to her advantage. Debate team type bullcrud.
I find it sad that she feels the need to do this, but my own argumentative side wants to jump in and say, Whoa that's not unconditional love! She's putting conditions on her love for him (I won't have sex with you until you feel xyz about me) but requiring that he not do the same.
