I was your wife. the only thing that woke me up was my DH leaving. Separated for a year. Been back together for a year now. It certainly got my attention. No, I am not as high drive as he is, but I meet him in the middle.

Your wife doesn't think you will leave over this. I thought mine wouldn't. I was wrong! I am sorry to say that him leaving is what turned us around. I don't wish it on anyone, but I now have a profound respect for what is healthy and expected in a good marriage.