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Maybe you can make her understand that although you do love her and will continue to love her, you consider a complete lack of a physical relationship to be one of the aberrant behaviors that would make living together untenable. It’s worth a shot anyway.



I've done this. I told her last week that, while I may still love her, I wouldn't be able to live with her. She dismissed this as semantics. "Oh great. You'll divorce me, leave me because I'm not giving you sex, and still say, 'but I love you.' Thanks, but no thanks!"

She wants it all on her terms.

Hairdog