Quote: what is your wifes perception of your marriage ? What issues does she see as being the grounds for unhappiness or dissatisfaction in the R. Does she think if you would just get over the sex issue you two would have the perfect relationship or does she site other reasons or issues that need to be addressed?
My wife sees marriage, in general, as two people committed to a life together, with common interests, common spiritual goals, supporting each other emotionally.
Her perception of OUR marriage? Hairdog will never be happy, I can't make him happy, so why even try. We're co-parents, co-habitators, and we share debt.
Yes, she probably thinks that if I "get over" the sex issue, most of our major issues will be worked out. She does tend to think that she has given and given and given and that I still want more from her, yet I am unwilling to give.
I think we've both made sacrifices, continue to make sacrifices, and, heck, while we're doing all this sacrificing, why not make it fun and make love once in a while?
