RE: HD What gets me is that she is able to find just about anything to support her "cause," and then ignores almost everything else.
Hairdog. That is one of the things that frustrate me so much. I present my opinion and some options and BB stickis to her opinions.
I can imagine you saying what you would like and suggesting some options to your W and she is sticking to her wants and feelings and not considering any options.
This style of 'one-sided against the other / oppositional stance', causes me so much frustration sometimes I just want to give up. It seems to be a no win contest and I imagine you feel that way too sometime. But we know quitting either by giving in or leaving is loosing too.
I liked the above post suggesting that you say to your W, If you never leave you will still be disagreeing about this untill your 50th aniversery.
I will keep reading HD. I hope you have good things comming your way soon.
