Hey, all. A lot of activity on my thread last night and this morning. Thanks for all the input and suggestions.

Had a big fight last night and this morning (actually, just a continuation of the fight we've been having). And, of course, it got REALLY ugly.

This morning, though, she said something to me that really echoed what Chrissy had said here. Mainly, that she can't think about working on the sexual part of it all, with the threat of divorce hanging over her head. In addition, she finally seemed ready to take serious my statement that I don't feel loved without physical affection.

I told her that I was tired of her not only ignoring my sexual nature, but ridiculing it. It seemed to hit a chord in her.

We'll see if it has any type of lasting effect, but I do feel better about us than I have for several weeks.

But damn, am I tired today.

Hairdog

P.S. Cemar: never refer to your wife as "the wife." Just call her "my wife." Using the word "the" is offensive to a fairly large portion of the U.S. female population. Don't ask me why. Just trust me on this.

PPS: Cemar: I've really appreciated your questions and support of me lately. Just wanted you to know.