Honey,

I actually asked her about the masturbation/porn/affair thing, and she was ADAMANT that he is not a masturbator (in fact, had trouble mb for a sperm sample), doesn't particularly like porn (doesn't want to watch it with her, or buy books/mags), and that he couldn't possibly be having an affair. Is she in TOTAL DENIAL??? What is going on with him?

He actually tells her to 'get dressed' if she walks around in the nude, and acts like she has committed a crime if she wears sexy lingerie.

Now to be fair, they have been 'baby making' since over a year, so that is causing him to be a bit tense over sex. He sees it as a function they MUST DO now, and says it will change when she is pg... I am worried about them. I don't think it will change for the better at all.

What do you think? Is he a scam artist? I've never heard of a man stopping in the middle of having sex... "Was it good for you? Ok then... G'nite!"

Thanks for your reply!

Jen