It's interesting how much more intense it is to find someone in the opposite sich in real-life than on this BB. I've posted that a friend of mine just revealed to me that she was LD and when I told her just a bit of my HD woes she had a reaction similar to yours because I know I must have revealed the years of hurt as I was speaking even though that wasn't my intention. Then I proceeded to freak her out by telling her that it got to the point in my marriage that I told my H that either things had to improve or I was leaving thereby giving her a bit of a wake-up call about her own situation.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
