I am shocked! He does NOT seem the 'type', and she has been suffering in silence for YEARS!
I have never heard of a man not needing to 'finish off' during sex, but apparently her H doesn't. If she has an O, he is 'satisfied' and gives up and goes to sleep! He doesn't even want to O!!! I have NEVER heard of that!!!
I gave her the web address for this bb, and I hope she will post here. I think she needs to hear that others are sharing in her pain, and it is REAL PAIN she is feeling. She was so embarassed to even tell me about it, but once she started talking, it just poured out of her.
I never realized until tonight how much she has suffered over this, and how undesirable she feels. This from a woman who is obviously a very sexual person, it just oozes out of her pores! It is just not right, and I pray there is a solution here for her, because she is a beautiful person feeling very unattractive and alone right now.
It makes me realize how LUCKY I am that my H WANTS me... all the time... no matter how I look or even smell! He is attracted to me and always was, and I am always aware of it. I hate that he perhaps suffered in silence a lot of years due to my not understanding his needs. I do have to say that I'm doing MUCH better these days, but it is something that I have to always keep in mind. Not sure why, but I do...
Hugs to all you HD women out there suffering along with my friend. I pray for all of your H's, that they can see how much this is hurting you and find their desire again.
