Talked with H last night...what else can I do?

[darling_nicki]

Am I right to assume you are in argreeance with the sex one time a week and with oral sex thrown in once or twice a week? Is this something you feel will satisfy your emotional needs long term or are you willing to just except this for now?

Hi Chrissy, Thanks for your thoughts. This is something we came to an agreement on together. He actually said that he would like oral sex a couple times a week in addition to IC once a week. We are mutually satisfied with oral sex and I feel that this in addition to ML once a week will be a great improvement in our current sitch.

I guess that I am hoping that improving our SL will make us closer. Other than our SL, we have a good R.

Just wondering if your H steps up to the plate and does meet this need how he will feel if later you up the anty.

My hope is that if H steps up and our SL remains consistant, I won't feel the need to up the anty. I work a full time job, plus have started my own business and have a one-year old! I am often tired and "don't feel like it" some nights. If we can have three or four sexual incounters a week I would be a happy girl, no need to up the anty! (You can quote me on that later if I complain that 3-4 x isn't enough!!!)