We have discussed that we were very happy when we consistantly ML once a week. He said that he would enjoy OS a couple time a week in addition to that.
Am I right to assume you are in argreeance with the sex one time a week and with oral sex thrown in once or twice a week? Is this something you feel will satisfy your emotional needs long term or are you willing to just except this for now? Just wondering if your H steps up to the plate and does meet this need how he will feel if later you up the anty. Gradually increasing frequency is great if you both know that is what you are doing. If only one person is looking at it from that angle will the other person feel decieved later on?