Talked with H last night...what else can I do?

[darling_nicki]

I call your H "passive" and he has this marriage check list. Wife, check. Child, check.

Do you know H?! He has a life checklist...not just in R. It is frustrating.

I'm not sure about your theory but it is interesting. I have never gotten the feeling that he is treatened by his place with me vs. son. He is a great dad and we share most of the responsiblity of child care. What he lacks in child care he makes up for in household chores.

Sometimes I wonder WTH am I complaining about? Just the fact that I have no partner, no sex, no love. Is wanting to be loved selfish if everything else about the R is okay?

DN