Have you at least read the sample chapter of SSM? Read the whole thing and go from there.
I have read the book. That is what lead me to this BB. The book was so helpful in understanding what we are going through and that it is common. We have both read it and I feel that I have learned to express what it is that I mean when I say "I want a better R". He on the other hand hasn't been able to verbalize what it is that will make him feel like a couple again. How can I change/fix it if I don't knwo WTH I am supposed to do?
Somethimes I feel like he just has given up and it's not worth working through. Like he just wants me to leave so that he doesn't have to do it or be responsible for the decision. Ughg...they don't put this in the wedding magazines!
Thanks for you suggestions! Nicki
"I just want to live happily-ever-after every now and then." Jimmy Buffett
