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#507297 08/23/05 07:07 PM
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Hey Dejavu:

Thanks for checkin on me. I have been hit with D papers and I am just licking my wounds right now, so a littl quiet. I have been following your sitch including the weekend capers. Well, I guess you should let him sit and chew on it for a while. I do see som positives in that visit however.

Good luck with the job search. Boy, you have been working on that for a while. Hope things work out well.

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The 3 laws of DBing: 1. PMA is critical to DBing. 2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical. 3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
#507298 08/23/05 09:46 PM
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T,

I don't have much to add, but it seems like your PMA is at a high right now. Good for you. I also like your goals that you outlined w/ Wes.

Take care.

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Update!

There's not really much of one! But since I'm doling out advice (fwiw!) I might as well put s/t here!

PMA is still great, but that's bcuz it's only 10 more days til college f/b season. UofM is #4 in the polls and has been designated the q/b univ of choice! oh, I just love this time of year! Too bad tickets are already sold out for the Mich/UW game. It's only an hour away from me.

S9 has taken over another one of my team tshirts, and when I say 'go blue' instead of repeating me like he usually will; he says 'Go Vikings!' A defector in my midst!

The job issue is still being a hassle. Grrr. I agree, UD, I've been working on it for a while, but this persistence can only pay off later. The current company that 'wants' me, is now on the temp service's bad side and this puts me in the middle. I can fight for the job and screw the temp service, but is this the kind of company that I really want to work for?? Luckily, school is back in session next week, which will free up my time to look even harder. Keep telling the boys/friends/etc; I'm just going to go work at McD's. That actually sounds better to me the more I say it!

As for Ex, no contact since this w/e. Everytime I start having the expectation that he may call, I divert the thought by thinking that maybe there is trouble in paradise!! I have also came to the realization that he had a serious EA w/me this w/e and was very close to a PA! Which means, will I ever be able to trust him if we had a R again? hmmm. ok, no more thoughts on him today!

I'm off to apply at www.workatmcdonalds.com
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Bruce, I'll save you the trouble of reading through my post.

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Sorry, had to do that!

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I'm so glad your PMA is up so high! You sound wonderful!

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As for Ex, no contact since this w/e. Everytime I start having the expectation that he may call, I divert the thought by thinking that maybe there is trouble in paradise!! I have also came to the realization that he had a serious EA w/me this w/e and was very close to a PA! Which means, will I ever be able to trust him if we had a R again?




Yeah, just don't go there right now. When/if he comes back, you can take your time and explore that whole mess of issues. Right now, maybe just enjoy the though of "trouble in paradise", just not too much!


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#507302 08/25/05 03:38 PM
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T,

I wish some of your PMA would rub off on me. I feel like Sir Edmund Hillary with all of the peaks and valleys I've been through lately.

Keep it up and share the wealth,Homer!

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Don't know what else to say to any1 today, I'm trying to keep a sour mood away and tend to make snide remarks to do that!

I turned down the job. It hasn't fell into place yet, but if the company pres is too cheap to pay the service he hired to find me; that doesn't bode well for my future w/the company. On the good side, I have another interview and it's local! (not w/mcd's tho! ) I'm planning on an all-out preparation for this one, it's outside the engineering field and into computer programming.

Keep working on your pma's every1. Wish I could send some of mine out to share. I'm going to save my sarcasm for the ex when he calls. MMMWWWAAAHHHAAAHAHAHA!!
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*hugs* Sorry the job didn't work out. You'll love computer programming! Why type of programming is it?

As for your sour mood, come on over to my sitch and be sour all you want. I'll go see if I can find some good dirty jokes for you. (Have a feeling you're one that would appreciate them!)


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thx for the hugs, hope! wow, an open invite to dump my sourness on your thread

The job is for a 'systems technician' but I applied at the last minute and don't have all the details. This is for a large casino; (eat your hearts out vegas goers!) so I don't know if there is programming, networking or system maintenance involved. I dabble in all of this as a hobby!

Don't know if I'll be over to your thread today; I'm planning a demise for my ex at the moment. (video game demise - should he die by drowning, starvation, or my fave- electrocution? hmm, maybe I can post a screenshot here!)
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One word - electrocution



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