P.S. Just thought I'd kid you with a short note even though I never write short ones.
1) I think the pursuit was the proper amount, especially considering the shinking distance between you. It's not like you can be all over him all of the time. Perhaps some of his apprehension was about "cheating" on the OW. I'd suggest giving him a while to digest the interaction. Let him dissect it for awhile, make comparisons, think about you in a positive light. Now is certainly not the time for pushy pursuit. His own mind will do more to further your cause then anything you can say or do.
2) I'm glad your S got the opportunity to see his dad. Certainly sounds like he also wanted to see you. Sorry you didn't get the opportunity to wear the skimpy bikini, but maybe he got to see a more toned you anyway.
3) Don't start getting your expectations up too much.
4) Good luck on potential jobs
W
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt