I don't even know where to start. There's so much to tell!

Let's start at the beginning! Ex arrived about a half hour early. He had to hug me w/in the first ten minutes of being here, which I returned! He commented on how small I was and that my hair was getting long! I just blew it off!

He wanted to go shopping, actually bugged me about it all day, buy us some groceries and school clothes for the kids. I finally told him the store is too packed on the w/e and I had all the stuff to make dinner. I offered to 'make myself scarce' so he could spend some time w/s9, but he wanted me to stay!

We didn't get to go to the beach, but took s9 out to the library (one of his fave places) did some sightseeing (ex had me drive his car so he could look around!) and then to the local park/zoo. S9 had a blast and was really well behaved the whole day!

We came back to the apt, ex wanted to relax for a while since he was out of sorts on the time difference and getting up so early and invited me to lay down w/him on the couch! We rested for about an hour, but everytime I moved, he was worrying over the fact that he was touching me, and I kept having to tell him that I was fine w/that!

Even better, he decides that since he couldn't take us shopping, he would take us all out to dinner. But the k's wanted fast food, and he wanted 'sit-down' (very unusual for him!) so I HAD A DATE W/EX last nite! Wow. I am still amazed that he wanted to take me to dinner and had no problem leaving the boys for a couple of hours. And no complaints about how much dinner cost him! (he used to do that even when we went to fast food!)

We sat around and watched tv for a while last nite, s9 came out to sit between us, then fell asleep on dad's lap. Then, oh this does keep getting better and better if any1 is still reading I told ex he could come sleep in the bed instead of the couch ..... and he did! But nothing happened since he came to bed w/his clothes on!

5am, ex gets up, so I do and so does s9! but the little one fell back to sleep on the couch while I gave ex a back massage; he complained when he woke up that he was stiff (and yes it was! ) I talked him out of his pants and then back to bed! But I only made it to 'third base' guys, and finally put the s out of my mind since that's not focussing on the long term goal. Besides, I figured, I'd leave him wanting more!

He offered to make breakfast this morning (his usual Sunday morning deal) but we worked on it together this time; he couldn't really tell me to get out of my own kitchen! After breakfast we sat and talked for a bit, he commented on how relaxing it was here and I told him 'well, don't be such a stranger'. After he got around to head home, he was thanking me for letting him stay here instead of a hotel, I told him that it worked out for this w/e, but it may not be convenient next time!

So, overall, I think it went well. Sorry for the bit of pursuit (took too many lessons for Wes!), but I did end up being gone when ex called to tell me he made it home! And since there hasn't been a return call, chances are that he is out making up w/ow! I would love to know how that goes! Do I compare better than her??? I definitely think so, I've heard they just go out to yard sales on the w/e!

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