I am on pins and needles (where did that term ever come from?) waiting for this company to call me today! Thanks UD for the congrats, its not confirmed yet; but things do look very 'gute'!

Oh, Gabe, you definitely didn't offend me! It's along the lines that I am thinking too. One of the guys at the shop yesterday kept checking out my legs (I wore a skirt); so I will use this to my best advantage. I have the short-shorts, my tight jeans and a couple of skimpy tank tops for Saturday. (oh, note to self-need to go look for the lingerie also! note to Gabe-I already wear thongs! ) And he isn't getting any s from me, I'm just coming onto him and will let him know that he will have to work for that! (note to ex, if you want a piece of this a$$, it's going to cost you!)

It's going to be a little different over his last visit but I think I have learned s/t since then. He immediately wanted the touching, hugs/kisses etc while here; but rejected me as soon as he was back home. So this time, I will play 'hard to get', be flirtatious and leave him wanting more! Playing the feminine side of me to the full extent! That should get the hole burning in his brain!

And 'no arguing'. I picked up on that also. He probably has concerns that if he comes to see us, I will want to 'argue' for more attention after. But NO, I will drop him as soon as he leaves my back door! S9 is really doing great w/o dad for now and as I am planning, I will give ex a good taste of my life being wonderful w/o him also! Hmm, maybe I will be 'gone' when he calls after he gets home.

And the job issue is not being discussed. (he did ask during the phone convo if I was at work during the day & when is a good time to call- I didn't tell him anything) I want him to wonder what is going on in my life. He must have drilled dd25 hard about me. Some info that I haven't told anyone has made the rounds. (s17 was recently rejected from the military, he told his sis who told ex who told his ex!) My life must have his curiousity up, so I will tell no details while he is visiting! But I will keep the PMA high, and let him wonder!

Yoda, any other wisdom will you part with?
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