Tried to post a reply here this am, and s9 took over my computer! Also didn't get a reply to ex until now!!
Just sent him out a simple message, 'give me a call and we'll discuss it.'
In some ways, I worry that he is trying to use this against me legally that if I deny visitation he has record of his attempt!
But I really do want to see him, I just don't have any clue as to how to act around him anymore. Do I plan on being gone as much as possible? Let him see only s9 and not me? Are hugs and touching out of the question? I do know that that is his LL and want to play on that some, but is it appropriate at this point?
I'm sure dd24 gave him an earful already. She noticed how good I look, the progress I'm making w/s9 and was telling me that she wants to move closer now. I didn't mention anything on the job sitch, so she can't tell him that; but she does know that my car is acting up and ex may want to 'rescue' me on that. I'm not going to let him tho. Hmm. He always liked to give AOS to me, so does that mean I have his LL wrong?
Thx for the advice. I'll let you know whats happening after he calls. T
