Quote: You might as well have just asked him to remarry you. I suspect you know that you shouldn't have listed the ways in which he was "leading you on".
At the time that I did this, I was literally pushing him away from me! I even said that to him; "back off! you're smothering me!" I had no expectations that he would come around, I 'wanted' to move on!
Then his brother gets sick, and ex leans heavily on me?? He isn't leary of anything yet!
I agree w/the cheeseless tunnel over s9. I even tried the approach that he goes to see other k's first and then come here.
The 'going dark' approach will be used as time for me. I am planning to ignore his emails and not answer every call from him and if I do answer keep it very short.
