Quote: I guess I don't really know what is keeping me here anymore; other than the fear of losing him when I get back. But I've already lost him, right?? So, then, what is keeping me from moving back?
Am I confused enough this morning?
Yeah, you sound confused enough. T, why are you letting other people (besides your sons) have any input into what you do with your life. Your ex is just that, an ex. He doesn't have any ability to keep you out of the state or the same town. If there is a job that you want in Michigan and you want to move back then by all means do it. Quit worrying about whether your parents are supportive of it or your ex is supportive of it. You do what is best for T, S17, and S9.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
