I agree Jo, she's not as solution based as the counselors from db but she's free. I will probably keep looking for a better one. I have talked to a couple others in the office, one is booked all the time and the other one, well, one session I was telling her that my ex had me all upset since I called him - she says 'don't call him anymore, what's the next problem?'
I won't bring up the g/f; I know he's been hiding it from me but so what, right? I'm sure it won't last and I would rather wait until he admits it to me than to have me forcing a confession! Like you said, it sounds like I'm desperate.
Which I am kind of desperate at this point, mostly due to other crises in my life and I need to really get that under control or I will have to go dark w/ex until I have a high PMA. T
