A lot happening with you lately. It must be a very disturbing and confusing time. Please take a time out of thinking about whether you are done or not until things calm down. And there is no harm in being supportive to whatever extent you can of your XH at this point. But keep your expectations at zero. Your XH is in a big soup too. I dont think either of you are capable of processing anything right at this point.
take care and keep us posted.
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
