this is helping! Actually, ex called just as I was posting that, so a little bit of anger was released. (sorry, fellow dbers, the pressure cooker had to let off some steam!)
But it didn't go all bad. He doesn't want me angry, said he never got the email to call s9 last nite. (likely story!)
(yet everytime I show progress on issues, it's ok that he is angry at me?)
We blamed some of the confusion this week on his other ex, which is ok w/me for now. He couldn't talk long but said he will call back tonite. So, time to gather my thoughts again.