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At the ripe age of 29



HA!HA! very ripe!! well, my niece was born on my 36th bday, so I gave this day away really. I'll always be 36, she can take over the aging.

I called her this morning and we had a nice convo too!
me: 'happy bday, n!'
her: 'happy bday aunt t'
me: 'happy bday to you, n'
her: 'no, happy bday to you, aunt t'
me: 'no, happy bday to YOU, n!'
she thinks I'm silly! Maybe since I always want her presents more than mine! (we're both big barbie lovers but nobody ever buys them for me anymore!)

Ok, this whole issue of ss14 is going to blow soon. Both his parents are fighting for him, ex is realizing that he won't be able to fight her w/o me on his side! And I am almost ready to run the other way!

What do I do w/this sitch? As his friend, I want ex to go visit the other k's this weekend, but that would give up the visit he promised to s9. I was thinking of saying we can come visit him soon, but I don't have the money to do that.

Then, of course, if he isn't sure of getting ss14's custody on his own, should I suggest that we do it together? There is so much pressure in that, but he seemed to be hinting at it this morning! Why won't guys speak what's on their mind? Is it that whole marsian thing?
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