I'm glad to see the increased positivity in your sitch.
Two observations for you to think about that might help you to keep the focus on you and your changes. 1) You just had a really good time (GAL work) and H likely knows some of that. 2) B/c of your GAL work, is it possible that you come across to H a bit less resentful and angry?
You sound like an incredible mother by the way.
BTW, what kind of fun, pleasurable stuff are you doing just for you?
