Quote: I really can't explain the difference in ex.
That is absolutely RIGHT! You cannot, so do not even begin to try. Take it as a nice conversation, PERIOD. Reading into his call, his conversation will set you up for disappointment. Very difficult to accomplish, I know. I know internally I feel a little surge everytime something interesting or unusual happens with XW, but I also know after this long, it does not mean anything.
We tend to read WAY more into their behavior and I don't imagine they give their behavior or our reaction nearly the scrunity we do.
We look for something and likely they are thinking nothing.
