You experimented, now keep an objective record of how it goes. In my case, I've scare W a bit with my subtle pursuit earlier this week (nowhere close to asking whether we had a chance still. T, do you a have big set of b@lls or what?!) , and it triggered some rehashing and exchange of old/new hurts or issues. I think we've traveled thru them somewhat, but there will be more of that to come before any real considerations of reconciliation.
Hang in there, and you and S have a great BDay regardless, 'kay?
