Ok, now does everyone have their curiosity about me satisfied? But wait, I haven't put any latest updates w/ex!
I did a little bit of pursuing w/him last night. It actually went really good.
Talked to his ex for a bit yesterday, she is really after me to be on her side in her fight to keep her s14. And she went on and on about there being an OW.
So, ok, I get in touch w/ex and say he really needs to come see s8 on his bday this weekend. He says he just can't. I fill him in on the latest from his ex, (other than the story of the OW) and we talk for an hour and a half.
But part of the convo was R talk. No expectations on my part, just a simple direct question of 'do you think we ever have a chance of reconciling?'
He really couldn't answer. Said well, not today, but maybe. I asked him what issues he has now, and he turned that around to his problem that everyone has taken advantage of him in the past and he doesn't want that to happen again. I did apologize for my faults in that area, and told him I want to work through that issue whether we get back together or not.
He did mention that there are some 'complications' in his life right now (this may mean OW, but I didn't accuse!) and I did tell him that I have already forgiven him for his past mistakes, that I had blown them out of proportion back then, and willing to just work on a better friendship/R w/him in the future. He said TY, he appreciates that.
Now we have had two phone convos in three days that have been long enough to kill a phone. (his battery died last nite and we had to get off!) Otherwise, he might have kept talking.
So, I am going to do a little low-level pursuing for the next month. Just indirect pressure so if there is another person, she has some competition! I plan to keep up the good convos w/him (might have to get another phone that stays charged longer) some pressure to come visit s8 and me! (i did mention to ex that I missed him too, but no ILY's) and keep my PMA going whenever we talk. And he even asked how I was doing last night! I didn't go into any details of the career, therefore, I wouldn't hit on his ego right now.
