So many decisions this morning!

What should I title my new thread? (hope it's ok!)

How to link the old post? (it works!!!?)

Coming out of the dark!

And listing some history-
Me 43 soon to be 44!
Ex 43 but really looks much older than me!
his kids: s24, s20, d16, s14
my kids: d24, d24, s17
s8 (soon to be s9!) ours together and diagnosed autistic

Bumpy ride through history, together 12 years, M almost 7
1st bomb Nov 98 (after which I found him in PA and he decides to work on M)
2nd bomb Aug 03 (suspected EA)
I worked on m/b practices for 6 months, then separated from him for two months.
He filed for div May 04
I moved back in June 04
Started working d/bing in Oct 04
D day went through Feb 05
I moved w/s out of state Feb 05 (move related to s8's schooling/therapy)

And that concludes this portion of my new thread!

Wait, there is much more to come!
T