Hello LE,

Thanks for considering my story "insperational." I am very humbled and flattered. I was dbing after divorce before this fourm was created. Most of my story is found in "hopefulness" with the word "groundhog" in the title.

The first thing I learned about DB'ing was DB'ing was about winning me back. After that, everything else was good. I worked on finding me, defining me, and learning who I was. What I found out was I was a pretty good guy.

I DB'd for almost a year when I decided to call it quits. Most of that time was post divorce. I one day realized that who she was, and who I was were 2 different people. Basiclly, I changed (for the better acording to her words) and she didnt. Here is a link for me commint out of the dark, and to our first time being together after our divorce The GroundHog thinks he sees a faint shadow... ,The $150.00 Question. Does she or Doesnt she? and what happened at the meeting... Groundhog see's spring comming. Still Hibernates

This lasted for about 6 months with some positives, and a couple of failures....

Somewhere along the line, I realized that I was a good dude. I was attrative, and I could walk away at any moment. I chose not to for a few months. I did not feel a release from God to move one.

Then one day in June, I realized the woman that I once loved was the woman I wanted for life.

I took what I learned in DB'ing, applied it to my life, and hit the jackpot with my new wife.

I have no regrets, I was blessed with a friendship with my wife post divorce... And learned so much about me, and what I wanted in life.

DB'ing can be done after a divorce and one can be successful. Its a choice you make. Then biggest piece of advice I can say is be true to yourself, and only change if it is something you want to do.

Good luck

Lord Bless.

WW "I no longer WILL WIN since I HAVE WON!!"