A few other 180s: trying to keep the house clean and doing little bits of extra stuff around the house (organizing etc..) Uhm..Had a few last night but can't remmember them all now! LOL GO figure! Uhm, OH! Trying to ride my bike at least once a week if not more depending on the weather. I do this with either my son or, if he wants to go, my son and H...Haven't gone with H in three weeks tho. Won't ask him yet tho. Emailing H more about sex etc...sharing mutual sex interests with him. I think that is our main connection b/c he has told me there are things OW does not want to do that I (NOW) have no problems with. We have always been great sexually when we were first together, but then things got boring and dull (me as well as him). Went out and bought some massage oil from the place we bought it a loooooooooong time ago when we were first together. I got the same fragrance we had as last time *scent is the strongest sense tied to memory,they say*. And I bought a sex book! One with pics and stuff in it! I think he was taken aback but curious about them the other day. I also have mentioned to him that I want to buy some new toys as well. (Hey If i can make it more interseting for him, who knows???:)!