Still Hopeful Thax for the advice. I'll pass on the Gay request for advice thing though I agree it may be the best source for information on this subject. (Proper attire)
Looking for a professional look for Job interviews. Put into the sitch where the big D is looming and STBX cannot live in the home, raise D11, and financially make it. My motive is D11 and ensure two Stepkids are good to go.
Live in the Deep South (deeper would be the Gulf). Will have to lookinto what you state but take some time off to do so.
One 180 I've been working on (starting in Iraq) is putting myself last.
Next one is stop the uh-raw stuff (at my age it's silly) and join a rear area unit. (Govt Life and Med insurance is the best deal so I need to continue). Danger is to be sent over again. D11 had problems with my last deployment.
The softening of my image is the next. Not enough hair for styling gel.
In short what would a very fit 50 yr old with a military haircut wear professionally inorder not to scare the beegeebes out of folks or appear like the main Character "A Few Good Men". (Which is not how USMC officers act.)
I got hired on the construction job cause I was perceived to be an Arse kicker. I motivate by example. Working with minorities it works well. Construction just does not pay $$$.
Thx for the help.
"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin