well...I got inspired and I signed up a personal on a dating service on the internet (for free and no picture). So far I've rec'd 2 "winks" from actually pretty cute and normal sounding individuals. Of course to email back and forth I would actually have to pay a fee, which I won't, but hey, makes me know there are other fish out there, and H will see this if he snoops in my email (which was the cardinal sin that I did and how I found out about his A. Ha. Ha.)
but I think the jealousy thing kinda works. H is quietly interested in when I go out dancing with my dance instructor...actually it is a group lesson, he doesn't know that. But he saw in my emails that I was going dancing tonight, and he saw in another that I think my dance instructor is "Hot"...this is before I knew he was spying but the pt. is...now this week he was mentioning I go dancing all the time and that I'm going dancing this Thurs (which I did not tell him as he claimed...he saw it in an email). So a little vague hinting towards moving on is good. So anyway, I've taken it to the next level with this dating ad. Shoot, anyone want me to call and leave a mssg, mail a card, send flowers, I will do it.